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Blogs > sw33tn3ss3s4u > Some enchanted day

Define Kinky  

sw33tn3ss3s4u 59F
104 posts
1/31/2009 5:57 am
Define Kinky

I often get asked if I am a kinky person. I always have to stop and think about my response. I am not really sure that I have kinks per say.

I mean, what I might think is kinky might not be to another person. It might be a normal thing for them.

Is it kinky to want someone to want you, take you the minute they see you, kiss you and push you up against the wall and want to consume you right then and there? Now, admittedly, I think that is hot and very erotic. Is that kinky? Not in my book.

Doing it in a dressing room at a store, where you want to keep quiet but just can't because it feels so darned good? Is that kinky? I don't think so. It is a complete turn-on.

To have someone that you care about demand that you get on your knees, put your hands behind your back and do as you are told. To have that person be so in control of you or threaten to tie you up. To have them touch you, knowing that you cannot touch them back. To ignore the demand that you keep your hands behind your back and then they tie you up to keep you from using your hands. To bring you to total bliss while surrendering all your control, is that kinky??? NO WAY!!! Not for me! Totally exciting.

Here is one for you...A man offered me $500 to poop on a glass table while he was underneath me. Said it was a total turn-on for him. Is that kinky? Well, for me, yes it is. I kept thinking, what happened in his life that watching someone poop was a turn on. Does it mean it didn't turn him on? It did I suppose. It is not something that I find a turn on, however, am I going to knock his choice? No, but its not for me, so I would call this a kink.

Been asked if I have ever been fisted. The answer is no. Is it because I think it is kinky? Not especially. Is it something that I would do at a future date? That is hard to say. Why have I not done it prior to now? Truthfully, it never really presented itself. Would I turn it down? No, I don't think so. So the answer is no, I do not think this is kinky, but you might?

I know of a guy who likes to put little, tiny electrodes on his parts, penis, testicles, nipples etc...he then has it hooked to some electrical device that when he plays a CD and the tempo reaches a certain beat, it pulses the electrodes, sending electric shocks to his parts. The best part is, he puts the CD on random so he doesn't know what is playing or how the electrodes are going to hit him. Now, do I think this is kinky??? Honestly. No. Why? Is it because I want it done to me? The answer is still no.

I do not find that kinky because it is something that turns him on. Is it different? Yes, I can agree with that.

How about a woman teaching another woman how to squirt? Two playmates asked if it could be taught. The answer is simple, yes. Every guys dream. Two women, right? Well, in the interest of having someone enjoying themselves is a wonderful experience in and of itself. Does it matter who the participants are? MFM? FMF? FFM and so on? Does that make it kinky by definition? You decide. It is not a kink to me.

How about the guy who likes to put things in his penis head? I mean, in the hole? I heard that this can go 1 of 2 ways, it either hurts like hell or it feels better than good. Does that mean its kinky? Is it different if a woman wants to use something other than a dildo or toy? Like say, the vacuum? Or a brush handle? Is is this any more kinky? I have seen all of the done, while I do not see this as an every day activity, it is kind of hot. Do I find it kinky? Me, personally, no I do not think its kinky.

Now, do you understand why I say KINKY is a relative term? I challenge all those brilliant minds out there to come up with something kinky and fly it by me or write your own thoughts on the matter. I am truly curious.

So, my point here is that, what someone else might think is a kink might not be to someone else.

rm_thrill2634 41M
33 posts
2/2/2009 6:49 am

 I love that post and I must say I have some kinky things in mind.


rm_2whackyfolks 55M/55F
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2/3/2009 2:25 pm

 kinky is anything that you think you shouldnt be doing yet you are doing it. its a frame of mind more than an actual event. feeling kinky might lead a relatively conservative woman to want to suck her man off with another woman watching. however a rather adventurous woman might define kinky as watching another woman suck her man off.


daxsub 55M

2/6/2009 8:04 am

 Kinky..... well i would have to agree that it is a VERY relative thing when it comes to different people and what makes them excited as for me i love it all from normal to the extreem and will try anything new at least once. You may want to redefine kinky in terms of is it a fetish or not just a thought


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