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What to do on a winter's day?
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What to do on a winter's day? North Carolina saw snow yesterday. Where I live, we got about 3". I moved here over a year to avoid snow!  So, the other half was off work, travel not advised. So, our was out at friends spending the night so they could play in the snow. Leaving the house to us and the dog. I suggested we go watch some porn and do it, since we had nothing but time. He said he wasn't in a movie mood. I then asked what kind of mood he was in. He just smiled at me. I was thinking, "I am gonna get lucky!" I put on the prettiest bra and panty set I had. Walked out in the living room and got a whistle. I sat down on the couch next to him and all he said was, "It's too cold to be dressed like that." I stormed out of the room! Many hours later, we finally did it, but only before we went to sleep for the night. Why do we have to do it just before we go to bed? Can't we do it early and then again later? I mean he is only 40! What am I doing wrong? If I left things up to him, we would do it only once a week on his day off. That works out to 4 times a month, 52 weeks per year. So, I need it more than 52 times a year! He works 55-65 hours per week and he does work hard. I will give him that. Tell me guys, would you be adverse to your wife coming to you and asking for it? Begging for it? I mean if you hate the person, that is a different story, but assuming you are in a relationship for more than just sex, what am I doing wrong? Are there any other gals out there experiencing the same thing? Please feel free to give me your wise words. Thanks so much. |
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oh boy honey you are so right...we should fix them up! have a barbeque! I could make friends with her! Before we know it, we are off to the van for some fun while they are sitting behind being boring! >>!
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1/22/2009 2:42 pm |
Yep! Got my sympathies too, darlin'. I got divorced due in no small part to an inequality of sex drives. I'm making no recommendations in that regard and it certainly hasn't helped my sex life to vast, overwhelming extents by going the divorce route, but it certainly hasn't hurt. I mean we had been down to about once every TWO MONTHS! As Ron White has said (and I might be paraphrasing), "I'm a pretty good dog, but if you don't pet me every now and then, I might just leave the porch." 
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Mister NCLIBRARIAN, You know how I feel. I am terribly sorry for all manner of men who had been refused by their women. I used to think that maybe the men didn't know the road map, but have found as I have gotten older, its mainly the women. I often wondered if I stood in the wrong line when they were handing out the sex drive?!?!
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1/28/2009 4:51 am |
id recommend therapy- its a great way to spend hundreds and accomplish very little. lol synchronizing sex drive is the hardest thing to do in a relationship. however i feel that if one party makes an effort and its not recognized then some form of conversation regarding subject is necessary. its not unreasonable to set a bench mark and say " i need sex 3 times a week" if your partner knows ur needs then the ball is in his court so to speak.
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Thank you!!!
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Try to find something that he is very interested in like maybe oral I know for me anytime that I get oral it makes me rise it doesn't matter if I just had sex lond day after work or i just ran two miles.
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